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Stop Judging Me For Loving Younger Men, Love Is Complicated - Zari

Stop Judging Me For Loving Younger Men, Love Is Complicated - Zari
Photo: Unknown 2020-01-14T06:58:21Z

Socialite Zari Hassan has dated over 6 guys who are younger than her.


She is often accused of falling in love with younger men, leaving her agemates. But she seems to be confused about the matters of the heart like most people in this world.


She asked her followers why she is always crucified for loving younger men yet the matters of the heart are complicated.


She is currently dating King Bae, who is said to be gay.


And she has once again deliberately refused to comment on the allegations that her boyfriend is gay.


In a long post on her instagram, she posted, " RANDOM THOUGHTS


Okkkkkk lets have a one on one


It has become a habit in society that we tend to judge people's relationship in one way or another. I said 'we' including myself because I ain’t no saint, and at times I have fallen into the trap and not so positive way of thinking


Matters of the heart are complicated to some extent that are beyond our understanding.


For example


When a young girl dates an older man she is instantly branded a  digger, when an older woman dates a younger man, she is a Craddle Snatcher or maybe a desperate person.


When a woman or man dates someone more financially established by status quo this becomes a case of “you are after her or his money”. When you date a not so good looking man or woman that also raises a-few eyebrows because society kinda narrows you down depending on your status. Eg: A doctor or pilot,  or oh no she sells at a market stall you can’t be dating such?!?! When your man or woman isn’t up to your standards, its a conversation of “levels”. Oh she or he can’t fit in with us. There are questions like; what does he or she do for a living, who are in her/his circle?!? This convoluted discussions and saga continues....... Love is and should be unconditional, love can be found in the most bizarre places with the least expected person. Its not the status nor the levels, not the financial stability or the public elevated status the list cld go on.  I wana hear from you.


Do these points mentioned have a factor when you decide to love someone?

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